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15 Honest Questions The Person You Marry Should Be Able To Answer

1. Why do you love me? People seem to feel this is a question that doesn’t especially need answering. Most will say we love others simply because we love them — a horrible answer. All people need to know exactly why it is that they love the people they love. Loving someone is a very selfish act, and it’s okay. You love the person you love for what that person does for you and how he or she makes you feel. We may all have slightly different answers as to why we love someone, but if we aren’t able to exactly define the parameters of our love, then we’re likely to struggle later on once the initial intensity dies down. If your partner can’t answer why he or she loves you now, then imagine the inevitable uncertainty down the road. 2. Why do you want to spend the rest of your life with me?   “Because I love you” is not a good answer. Life is a journey — one that is best not traveled entirely alone. However, not everyone has the same destination in mind. Wanting to take differ...

21 Questions to Ask Your Spouse Instead of “How Was Your Day?”

1. Did you listen to anything interesting today? 2. If you could do any part of today over again, what would it be? 3. How much coffee did you drink today? 4. Will you remember any specific part of today a year from now? Five years? 5. Did you take any photos today? What did you photograph? 6. What app did you open most today? 7. How can I make your day easier in 5 minutes? 8. If we were leaving for vacation tonight, where do you wish we would be heading? 9. If you won $500 and had to spend it on yourself, what would you buy? 10. If your day was turned into a movie, who would you cast? 11.What did you say today that you could have never expected to come out of your mouth? 12. What did you do to take care of yourself today? 13. When did you feel appreciated today? 14. If you could guarantee one thing for tomorrow what would it be? 15. If we traded places tomorrow what advice would you give me for the day? 16. What made you laugh today? 17. Imagine committ...